I met my husband Abisoye in 2013 during my NYSC programme in Uyo, Akwa Ibom state. I was assigned to the bank where he was worked to open my NYSC salary account. On getting there, the account officer that was meant to attend to my request was not available. While waiting for him, Abisoye showed up and introduced himself and offered to assist with the account opening process. As a result, he got my contact details and agreed to inform me once my account is created so I could complete my NYSC documentation. True to his words, he called me few days later to inform me that my welcome pack was ready for pick up. His kind gesture helped me to close out on my documentation process as I was already close to the deadline. Ideally, I thought our few days of ‘’bank friendship’’ would end at that point but I was wrong. About a week after our last encounter, I was surprised to see his call and after I curiously picked up, he said, ‘I just wanted to inform you that I have been trans...