We met in NYSC 2018/19 Edo State. I am Tiv. She's Igbo. I am Benue while she's Ngwa. I was in 200 level when I lost a long time relationship. I knew it would throw me off balance & due to my soft-heartedness I needed an escape route. Instead of facing the pain, I kept running away from it. I got into student's unionism, contested for President, went further to become the Departmental Secretary General, travelled to some Nigerian universities representing my school, & being amongst the best in my class I organised a free tutorial program for free just to create a diversion and not think of the heartbreak. I knew it'd drain me. I became very popular, successful in academics and leadership. This brought new friends especially ladies. However, I could not love again. I was enticed with gifts & other goodies. As I tried to sustain a relationship, the more I failed. At a point I had to meet a Counsellor. These summed up reasons I never imagined or thought I...