How we met on the hills of Jigawa

Some stories are written by fate, others by choice. Ours? A mix of both, with humor and divine intervention. It all began during NYSC Batch A, 2015 in Dutse, Jigawa.

We first met during a famously long NYSC clearance. While registering for U-report (24453), I needed 2 more numbers to complete my list. Everyone else hoarded theirs, but she showed up out of nowhere and gave me hers. That small act of kindness stuck with me.

Coincidentally, we lived in the same area. Naturally, we started seeing more of each other—walking home after clearances and engagements. She was fun to talk to, but I was engaged, so our bond was strictly platonic.

We became prayer partners. She often joked her top prayer requests were for a good husband and her fashion business to thrive. As a good friend, I prayed along. She also suggested I learn sewing—“You never know when it might help,” she said. I laughed but gave it a shot. Learning to sew was tougher than any NYSC CDS, but she was patient. Little did I know it would become a lifesaver after NYSC.

Fast forward to life after NYSC. My engagement ended (yes, I got served "international breakfast"). During my heartbreak, I thought about her—my prayer partner, my sewing tutor, my friend. Could I be the answer to our NYSC prayers?

I called her and said, "What if I told you I’m the husband we prayed for?" She laughed, “You can’t be serious!” But I was. So began my "boys’ campaign"—sweet notes and reminders of our bond.

Eventually, she said yes. We got married in October, and now, 6 amazing years later, we’re blessed with 2 wonderful kids.

She still teases me about that call, saying, “Imagine if I’d laughed you off completely!” I tease her back, reminding her that her sewing lessons helped sustain us during tough times.

Looking back at our NYSC photos, mountain hikes, and wedding pictures, I marvel at how far we’ve come. She’s not just my wife—she’s my encourager, teacher, and the love of my life.

Here’s to many more adventures and someday telling our kids how a simple NYSC connection became a lifetime of love.

🎥 @ola_mi_ji x @whatuneedfashionworld

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